Laurel Krahn lost her husband of 19+ years (Kevin G. Austin) suddenly on November 11, 2024 (he took a nap as usual, but never woke up). They relied on each other and were best friends and partners for more than 23 years.

At the time of Kevin's sudden death, they were still reeling from the loss of Laurel's parents (her mother in November 2021, her father in May 2023) and their two beloved cats (Isbjorn in October 2023, Ibsen in January 2024). This is A Lot. This is Too Much. It would be difficult for anyone, but Laurel has severe treatment-resistant depression which she has been struggling with for more than 35 years along with an anxiety disorder, and (recently diagnosed, so far untreated) ADHD.

Kevin and Laurel were already struggling due to depression, these losses, and the pandemic. Now Laurel is going to need a lot of help as she no longer has the folks who were her primary support system-- Kevin and her parents. 

Kevin also did all of the cooking so this will be a huge adjustment-- thus the request for gift cards for places from which Laurel can get food. (Laurel is also interested in food recs &amp; simple recipes and has requested those on Bluesky among other places.)

Laurel has not been able to work since 2001 but never managed to get on disability. She could use all the help she can get. Everything is very much appreciated. Just knowing people care means a lot.

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With your favorite restaurants at your fingertips, DoorDash satisfies your cravings and connects you with possibilities -- more time and energy for yourself and those you love.
Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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CareCard by Give InKind is the personalized, versatile gift card that turns money into true support.
When a loved one is experiencing a life event--expected or not--our first instinct is to ask "How can I help?". Sometimes it can be the most impossible question to answer. 
When you send someone a CareCard, the recipient can turn it into a gift card of their choice* that will help support them in their unique situation. From food, to shopping, to home care gift cards, and more, the CareCard by Give InKind personalizes support on a whole new level.  
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