Story
Kia Ora, for the purpose of introduction, my name is Kim. I have come to California to leave a violent, abusive relationship of 10 years. Being beaten on a weekly basis and then having to hide bruises became too much. My very last beating was nearly the nail in my coffin. I was hit over the head with a cast iron frying pan, received 42 stitches in my head, 2 broken ribs, a broken collarbone, a broken left leg, a broken arm, and my front tooth was knocked out. I remember the last words he said to me when he dumped me outside the hospital: "You tell anyone and I'll kill your whole family." He said, "See you when you come home," then kissed me on the forehead and drove off. I was in the hospital for 2 weeks, and I spent every moment planning my escape. I worked 15 years as a cultural practitioner helping others, and I can't help myself. I realized I was an abused woman just like my mother. This was my motivation to devise a plan to leave my batterer and start a new life. My story is unbelievable, truthfully, and I can't believe I survived it, but I did. Now, my goal is to survive here in California. No one knows I'm here, only my 4 adult children who live in Australia. I arrived in California on the 16th of August 2024. I had enough money to buy a small, cheap car and accommodation. I assumed that I could come to California and work, and I assumed wrong. I spent so much time planning my escape that I failed to research work permits, etc., and any benefits I would be entitled to here in California. Sadly, I'm not entitled to anything. I could have moved to Australia to my children, but my abuser has family in Australia, so I didn't want to put my children in danger. So, I chose California. So, the money I came over with ran out very quickly on accommodation and paying to apply for the appropriate working visa, which will take time. I have been living in my car for 2 months, eating at food banks, and showering at homeless shelters. The homeless shelters are full, which means I have to sleep in my car. I do have an opportunity for transitional housing, but it will not be available for me to move in until January. I know once I get my visa, I will get a job. It's the time in between I need help with; this is why I have made this page to ask for help. I'm hoping there are people out there that will show me a random act of kindness by supporting my page with funds so I can sleep in a bed and put a roof over my head instead of living in my car. Due to the cold, I ended up with pneumonia 3 weeks ago but could not stay in the hospital as I did not have insurance. They were very kind and gave me the medicine I needed, blankets, and food. Yes, I am homeless, living in my car in a country where I don't know anyone, BUT this is better than being beaten weekly, hospitalized monthly, and treated like I don't matter on a daily basis.
Special Notes
This is actually the happiest time in 10 years, but the struggle is becoming real for me. Sleeping in the car is taking its toll on my beaten body, and being homeless is taking a big toll on my mental health and well-being. I hope that you are able to show me a random act of kindness today. Your kindness will make a huge difference in my life and my new life here in California
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