On the morning of April 20th, the sun rose with the promise of a joyous occasion— a birthday. Inside a welcoming home, a nursery was freshly painted with soothing hues and stocked with lovingly chosen supplies from friends and family, all set to welcome a new life.

This day was meant to be a celebration of new beginnings for Lauren, Ray, and their family due to a long anticipated baby girl. Yet, as the early hours unfolded, her story took a turn towards an unexpected sorrow.

Grief replaced joy as the little heart that was to light up their lives…  fluttered for the last time at 2:50 am. Lauren, Ray, their boys and family are navigating through a storm of emotions. Though her time was short, her presence will leave an unforgettable impression on their lives.

💗04-20-2024 2:50 𝐴𝑀 💖
𝐴𝑢𝑏𝑟𝑒𝑒 𝑀𝑎𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑙𝑙 𝑃𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑡𝑜
7𝑙𝑏𝑠 7𝑜𝑧 - 20 ½ 𝑖𝑛𝑐ℎ𝑒𝑠

Our hearts ache alongside Lauren as she grieves the loss of her baby girl. Aubree's arrival was filled with unexpected complications during delivery that took her precious life. Lauren is not only grappling with immense grief, but also physically recovering from a difficult delivery.

The opportunities of Aubree’s life can now only be dreamt about, a reminder of how precious each moment is. With the cause of her unexpected passing still unknown, Lauren and Ray are seeking answers.

In these times of sorrow, our acts of kindness—like preparing a meal or simply listening—can bring light to their darkest days.

As Lauren grieves the future she imagined with Aubree, let's show her how much we care. All offers to help are welcomed such as with errands, watching the kids, or just being there to listen can be just as healing.

No Momma should suffer this Heartache twice. Rest in Peace, Twin Baby Liam August 19, 2017

𝐏𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐮𝐩 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐥.

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Meals:
	•	Beef Tacos
	•	Chicken Tacos
	•	Burgers
	•	Lasagna
	•	Pulled Pork Sandwiches
	•	Chicken Enchiladas with Green Sauce
	•	Beef Enchiladas with Red Sauce
	•	Chicken Alfredo
	•	Beef Stroganoff with Mushrooms
	•	Breakfast Sandwiches
	•	Tri-Tip with Potatoes and Caesar Salad or Mixed Veggie Salad

Restaurants:

	•	Bloomingcamps: Chicken Pot Pie
	•	Backwoods Burgers:
    	•	Sliders (No Pickles)
	   •	Smashburger (No Onions)
	   •	Mexicana
	   •	Jalapeno Turkey Melt (Add Pickles)
	   •	Regular Fries
	   •	Onion Rings
	•	JC’s Cafe:
	   •	Patty Melt (Add Mushrooms and Grilled Onions)
	   •	Kids Chicken Strips and Fries
	   •	Crispy Chicken Sandwich with Fries (Side of Buffalo Sauce x2)
	•	Mr. Pickles:
	   •	French Dip with Garlic Sauce and Extra Mayo on Dutch Crunch
	   •	Turkey and Cheddar on Sourdough (No Pepperoncinis, All Other Veggies)
	•	Jarro Viejo:
	   •	Burrito (Asada, Rice, Cheese, Sour Cream)
	   •	Burrito (Grilled Chicken, Extra Rice, Refried Beans, Cheese, Sour Cream, Tomatillo Salsa)
	   •	2 Crunchy Grilled Chicken Tacos
	   •	4 Asada Street Tacos (Cilantro, Onion, Salsa)
	•	Panda Express:
	   •	Plate (Fried Rice, Orange Chicken, Mushroom Chicken)
	   •	Plate (Fried Rice, Orange Chicken, Honey Walnut Shrimp)
	   •	Bowl (Rice, Orange Chicken x2)
	•	Pearl Palace:
	   •	BBQ Pork Rice
	   •	Veggie Chow Mein
	   •	Hot Braised Chicken
	   •	Mongolian Beef
	   •	Lemon Chicken
	•	House of Beef: Tri-Tip Dinner
	•	In-N-Out:
	   •	Double-Double (Plain with Ketchup and Mustard, Animal Fries)
	   •	Double-Double (Animal Style, Fries)
	   •	Double-Double (Spread, Ketchup, Mustard, Pickle x2)
	•	Ferresses:
	   •	Leo with Beef
	   •	Hot Turkey and Bacon (Add Pickles, Everything Else)
	•	Chik-fil-A:
	   •	Chicken Sandwich (No Pickle, Chick-fil-A Sauce, Fries)
	   •	Spicy Deluxe with Fries x2
	   •	Chicken Sandwich with Fries (Ranch, Buffalo BBQ, and Chick-fil-A Sauce)
	•	Pizza:
	   •	Pepperoni and Mushroom
	   •	Canadian Bacon and Pineapple
	•	Taco Bell: General Mention (No Specifics Listed)

“𝑇ℎ𝑒 𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑙𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑖𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑔𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑣𝑒 𝑓𝑜𝑟𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑛𝑜𝑡 ‘𝑔𝑒𝑡 𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟’ 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑜𝑓 𝑎 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑑 𝑜𝑛𝑒; 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑙𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑛 𝑡𝑜 𝑙𝑖𝑣𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑖𝑡. 𝑌𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑙 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑟𝑒𝑏𝑢𝑖𝑙𝑑 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓 𝑎𝑟𝑜𝑢𝑛𝑑 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑙𝑜𝑠𝑠 𝑦𝑜𝑢 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑠𝑢𝑓𝑓𝑒𝑟𝑒𝑑.” - 𝐸𝑙𝑖𝑠𝑎𝑏𝑒𝑡ℎ 𝐾𝑢̈𝑏𝑙𝑒𝑟-𝑅𝑜𝑠𝑠

Reminders for supporting the family:
𝗗𝗼’𝘀
	1.	Do listen more than you speak. Sometimes, the best support you can offer is your presence and willingness to listen without judgment.
	2.	Do acknowledge the loss. Say the baby’s name if known, and recognize the significance of the loss.
	3.	Do offer specific help. Instead of saying “Let me know if you need anything,” offer specific forms of help, such as bringing meals, running errands, or watching other children.
	4.	Do check in regularly. Continued support is important, as grief doesn’t simply end after the funeral or a few weeks later.
	5.	Do continue to include them in your plans. Keep inviting them to events and gatherings, even if they decline. It’s important they know they are not forgotten and still part of the community.

𝗗𝗼𝗻’𝘁𝘀
	1.	Don’t minimize their loss. Avoid phrases like “You can have another baby” or “At least you know you can get pregnant.” These comments can be very hurtful.
	2.	Don’t impose your beliefs. Avoid making statements about “God’s plan” or spiritual beliefs unless you know they share these views and find them comforting.
	3.	Don’t rush their grieving process. Understand that grief has no set timeline, and everyone processes loss at their own pace.
	4.	Don’t avoid them because you feel uncomfortable. It can be hard to know what to say, but simply showing up and being there is better than avoiding them.
	5.	Don’t forget significant dates. Birthdays, anniversaries of the loss, and other important dates can be particularly tough. Reach out to let them know you’re thinking of them.

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Why We Love This Gift: In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.
What To Express in Your Card: I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo

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Why We Love This Gift: Whether as a baby gift or to replenish supplies around the house, to cheer up a sick kid, or help someone with prescription costs, you can almost always find exactly what you need at Target. We love this gift because it enables your recipient with endless options and the ability to purchase precisely what they need - no questions asked.
What To Say In Your Card: I thought this might come in handy. I am sending you so much love!

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Why We Love This Gift: This is one of those gifts perfect in just about any situation. New moms and those facing stressful pregnancies love a massage. When facing illness, those affected do too. To be frank, self-care is often the first casualty of any crisis. When people are incurring unexpected costs at an alarming rate, the first thing to go are the "luxuries." However, those who face highly stressful situations with long/uncertain outcome are precisely those who should practice aggressive self-care. They won't do it for themselves. You do it for them. Pamper them. Let them know you want them to take a break and that their well-being is a priority.
What to Express in Your Card: I hope you don't mind my sending you this gift certificate. There is no one I know more in need of a massage/facial/yoga class. I know you won't do it for yourself - so I wanted to do it for you. I am sending you love.

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Why We Love This Gift: Shopping for groceries is a chore under the best of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.
What to Express in Your Card: I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered to you. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.

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Why We Love This Gift: We love this gift because it is take-out and everyone loves take-out. It gives your recipient the flexibility to order exactly what they want, when they want it. Pregnancy cravings are no joke. Neither is the stress level of a single parent on a school night. Young professionals who get sick often hate the loss of their own agency. The capacity to choose one's own dinner is not to be underestimated. Nothing says I love you like Pad Thai.
What To Express in Your Card: I wanted you to be able to choose your own meal. I am thinking of you!

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The digital Visa gift card is another convenient option for supporting someone when they need it most. It allows the recipient to select their own essentials or gifts from a wide range of merchants. The card will be emailed to your recipient’s inbox and is for online or by phone use only. It’s a thoughtful way to show your support and let them know you’re there for them.
Why we love this gift: 
With ever-changing needs, this gift allows your loved one to purchase whatever they need, whenever they need it. The digital Visa gift card is a fast, easy way to put funds in your recipient’s hands. This gift card is all about giving them that flexibility and peace of mind.

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<li>Versatility: Needs can change quickly in challenging times. This all-purpose gift card allows your loved one to purchase precisely what they need, when they need it. Be it a comforting meal, a therapy session, spa treatment, fuel, diapers, or countless other possibilities. No questions asked.</li>
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What To Express In Your Card: I miss you! Grab a meal. Sending you love.

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Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.
Why We Love This Gift: Because it is coffee. We love this gift for that reason, but also because coffee (and tea) can facilitate conversation. People stop and talk over coffee and tea. Barista-made cups of coffee or steaming cups of hot tea are among life's "little" indulgences - the kind of thing that lifts people up. They are also among the first things people slash from tight budgets. Help them put it back. This gift is suitable for anyone to whom you want to express concern, consideration, or love. Also, here is a hot tip: teenagers love Starbucks. It is a great gift for a teenager.
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