As many of you know Jen and Arien Fredenhagen tragically lost their sweet daughter Mesa in an ATV accident on 6/11.

We are looking for volunteers to support the family by being by meals in the days and weeks to come. 

Please pick a date that you can help and what you can drop off so they can plan their meals accordingly.

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Supporting Mesa Fredenhagen's Family with meals and other support

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