Thank you for following Ashlee and Ben’s journey and all the outpouring of support you have sent.&nbsp; Your prayers are powerful and have kept us all lifted and moving forward through the hard and mundane.&nbsp;

We started this page in March when Ben was diagnosed with melanoma and underwent surgery on April 8, 2024.&nbsp; He had lifting restrictions put on him which created an extra hurdle for the family as Ashlee has been on a long health journey herself and has limited capacity. Thank you for the support in this leg of the journey.&nbsp; It means so much and is truly humbling.

Today is August 23, 2024.&nbsp; 

We have had a summer filled with ups and downs which you can read in Ashlee’s blog below should you feel so inclined to do so.&nbsp; She is a beautiful writer and expresses herself very well (in my mom opinion 😊)&nbsp;

We have some encouraging news!!  Ashlee is finally scheduled for surgery on October 2, 2024.&nbsp; This will be for the MALS (Median Arcuate Ligament Syndrome).&nbsp; We are grateful she found a surgeon and hospital in Minnesota. This is an absolute blessing! You can read more about this in her blog soon. &nbsp;

There will be much more to her journey and probably additional surgeries in the future, but we are hopeful in the healing that will come from this one.&nbsp; I know with all my heart God is still in the business of miracles, and I believe He is guiding this entire journey.

We may be updating the calendar soon with some help with the kiddos or meals.&nbsp; But between Ben’s lovely parents and I we can juggle a lot.&nbsp; But sometimes the kiddos just need a break from us too as they are an extremely active bunch 😊!

&nbsp;You can read her blog here:
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Prayers are powerful.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; We welcome all prayers for our faith, strength, courage, patience, endurance, trust, hope…. 🙏🙏

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<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift:</strong> In every situation, food is necessary. Let your recipient select exactly what they want to eat - and have it delivered. Win and Win.</p>
<p><strong>What To Express in Your Card:</strong> I am thinking of you and I want you to eat something that appeals to you. You choose. xo</p>


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<p><strong>What To Say In Your Card:</strong> I thought this might come in handy. I am sending you so much love!</p>


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<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift:</strong> We love this gift because everyone has medical needs from time to time. Often, medical insurance with high deductibles eats into the ability of a family to cover unanticipated medical expenses. An e-gift card ensures that those you love get that which they need to heal - with adequate respect for their privacy. Perfect. This is very useful in any medical crisis in very specific ways. Supplements useful in various treatments are expensive and not covered. This is applicable to surgical patients, cancer patients, pediatric patients, and more. Medical equipment can be ordered - such as canes or walkers and your recipient can pay using their gift card.</p>
<p><strong>What To Express in Your Card:</strong> What else do you need me to do? At the ready. xo</p>


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<p class="p1"><strong>Why We Love This Gift:</strong> Shopping for groceries is a chore under the <em>best</em> of circumstances. For families facing a new lift event or crisis, it is very often incredibly stressful. The gift of a cupboard full of basic necessities is tremendous. It is a wonderful way to remind those you love that you have not forgotten the day-to-day challenges they face. You are telling them in no uncertain terms that they are not alone.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>What to Express in Your Card:</strong> I was thinking about the things you have to get done every day. I hope you'll let me help a little by giving me a chance to buy you some groceries - and have them delivered <em>to you</em>. Just one lest task for you to worry about. I send you my love.</p>


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<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift: </strong>We all need an escape sometimes - to fall in love with a fantastic book.</p>
<p><strong>What To Express In Your Card: </strong>There are so many books out there that identify with what you are going through. I know how hard it has been for you. I hope this helps. I love you.</p>


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<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift:</strong> Honestly, sometimes, permission to take a trip can be hard. Equally, sometimes expensive travel is <em>necessary</em>. One of the editors of <em>Give InKind</em> met a recently widowed woman who "confessed" (her word) to wanting to escape after the death of her husband following a long illness. She felt she could not justify the expense of a trip. Another family we have met along the way needed a place to stay while visiting a medical specialist far away from their home. People who lose their homes to natural disasters or as a result of financial strain need a place to stay. Lodging is an expensive component to any unforeseen circumstance. Remember to ask: where are you staying?</p>
<p><strong>What To Say In Your Card:</strong> I know that the expense of travel is significant. I hope you don't mind my trying to offset some of it.</p>


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<p>Happy Bites gift cards offer a fun selection of fast-casual restaurants and cafes that will satisfy your cravings. Happy Bites gift cards are redeemable in-store at these U.S. locations: Panera Bread, Jamba Juice, Noodles &amp; Company, Peet's Coffee and Burger King.</p>
<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift:</strong> We love this gift because we really like things that are convenient. This is a great gift for anyone traveling. Food on the road (especially in airports or train stations) adds up. For people on a budget, this is a real concern.</p>
<p><strong>What To Say In Your Card:</strong> I wanted to give you a little something that sometimes gets left off the mental budget. I always forget that my kids love Jamba Juice and I am then out 25.00 dollars before we even get on the plane. Thinking of you.</p>


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<p><strong>What To Express In Your Card: </strong>Please, treat yourself to coffee and donuts. You deserve it.</p>


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<p>Since 1971, Starbucks Coffee Company has been committed to ethically sourcing and roasting the highest quality arabica coffee in the world. Today, with stores around the globe, the company is the premier roaster and retailer of specialty coffee in the world.</p>
<p><strong>Why We Love This Gift</strong>: Because it is coffee. We love this gift for that reason, but also because coffee (and tea) can facilitate conversation. People stop and talk over coffee and tea. Barista-made cups of coffee or steaming cups of hot tea are among life's "little" indulgences - the kind of thing that lifts people up. They are also among the first things people slash from tight budgets. Help them put it back. This gift is suitable for anyone to whom you want to express concern, consideration, or love. Also, here is a hot tip: teenagers love Starbucks. It is a great gift for a teenager.</p>
<p><strong>What to Express in Your Card</strong>: I was just thinking about you as you grapple with recent events. I hope you will take a break and enjoy a cup of coffee - I know you are a latte fan. Maybe we can even meet for a cup? I'd love to know how you are doing and what I can do to be helpful. I send you lots of love.</p>


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